Norman Bushby

1941 - 2008
LocationRedcar
Age67 years
Date of Birth1941
Date of Death2/2008
Visitors2,813 since 07/02/2008
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Tribute to Redcar’s gentleman King of Clubs
Feb 7 2008 by Dave Robson, Evening Gazette

REDCAR was in mourning today for its king of clubs.

The town is expected to grind to a halt next Wednesday for the funeral of much-loved doorman Norman Bushby, who has died aged 66.

Since 1968, “Norman the Doorman” was known by almost everyone who enjoyed a night out in Redcar - and by many others across Teesside.

Firm and formidable but with a heart of gold, he manned the doors at Jigsaw, the Top Deck, the Madison in Middlesbrough, the Coatham, Darcy’s, Philmore’s in Saltburn, Silk’s and O’Grady’s.

He kept working until late last year when, unknown to him, he was being increasingly affected by a liver tumour, even though he didn’t smoke and rarely drank.

Diagnosed in December, the tumour claimed Norman’s life on Monday. His final moments were as he wanted, at home on Redcar’s Mickledales estate, surrounded by loved ones.

Since then, his beloved family, wife Peggy and sons Nick, Chris - known as Citta - and Jason, have been inundated with best wishes from people with their own fond memories of a true Redcar character.

Born in 1941 and brought up in Dormanstown with sister Margaret - mum of West Brom boss and Boro legend Tony Mowbray - Norman met the girl of his dreams, Peggy, on the waltzers at Saltburn.

They married at Guisborough Register Office in 1960 - “everyone said it would never last,” smiles Peggy - and remained devoted to each other to the end.

Norman, a grandad of seven, had two working lives. By day, he was a plater, beginning as an apprentice at Dorman Long before spending 25 years at ICI.

But by night, he was a bouncer who commanded respect, not through heavy handedness but through firmness, diplomacy and good humour.

His career on the doors began in 1968 at the Jigsaw behind the Swan Hotel, where he took a job to help make ends meet.

Then a popular haunt of Hell’s Angels, who often turned up with chains and knives, it was a daunting baptism of fire - but Norman took it in his stride.

In the 1970s, players from Jack Charlton’s Boro team regularly popped into the Top Deck and Norman knew them all. Comedian Roy Chubby Brown was also a pal.

And right up to his last shift at O’Grady’s less than two months ago, the respect he generated from pub and club-goers was immense.

The funeral, when Tony Mowbray is expected to be a pallbearer, is at St Peter’s Church, Redcar, next Wednesday at 12.30pm, followed by burial at Redcar Cemetery.

Son Citta said: “He knew how to handle any situation.

“Through all those years, he was never in trouble with the law or unnecessarily aggressive. He was a gentleman.

“And he never claimed a pound in benefits or had a day off work, even if he was ill. He was such an honest man.”

Peggy agreed, saying: “He wouldn’t even park on double yellows.”

Apart from Redcar, his two favourite places were Whitby, where son Jason runs the Angel pub, and Jersey, which always rekindled memories of happy family holidays.

He loved his sport, and even had a trial for Boro in 1956, but horse-racing was his favourite.

More often than not, he failed to back a winner but, perhaps fittingly, the last horse he backed romped home at 16-1.

His popularity around Redcar and beyond is undoubted, with the Redcar.net website inundated with tributes.

Peggy smiled: “If we ever went out, he never had to spend anything because everyone wanted to buy him a drink. People even offered to pay for his medical treatment. He was much loved.”

Nick added: “He was a strong bloke but he didn’t need to use his strength.

“If you ever spoke to him, you wouldn’t have thought he was 66 because he was so in touch with the younger generation.

“I’ve been in different parts of the country and when people hear my name and realise where I’m from, I’m often asked ‘are you any relation to Norman?’”

Jason said: “He lasted so long because he had real respect.”

Recently, Norman spent his days working at Citta’s garage business, Cartech.

But his night-time home was the Redcar pub and club scene where, by common consent, a shining star has gone out.

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Tributes

Thanks For Being There When It Mattered And Even When It Didn't

Norman - you are and were a Redcar legend. You were the doorman, I was the disco dancer and DJ. But it was you (and Big Baz) one night who backed me up when I was outnumbered by some idiots who didn't understand that some guys like to boogie on their own (now it's the NORM!) Thanks for that night - me and Baz gave them hell but you finished it off with complete calm.

St Peter has nothing on you - watch them gates!

John Davies

November 13, 2010

just to offer my condolences 2 peggy and close family i never really got to see the family but i know norm was a man very well thought of by my family and everyone i know so RIP norm xx will cya up there xx

Stacie (great niece)

July 16, 2008

Thinking of you all

To Peggy and the boys,
Although we are far away we are thinking of you at this sad time. The TOP DECK was a journey for all of us. It was a truly memorable one and you will never be fogotten. Norman was one of the true gentlemen ... with a great SOH. Even when our daughter turned up at SILKS Norman knew who she was straight away. We loved him and he will be sadly missed but lives on in our hearts. God Bless Peggy.
Phil Gray (mum's brother) is here now with us and wants to say that the funeral was heart warming and showed how many lives Norman touched. Phil tried to speak to you Peggy but people were talking to you and he had to leave for Australia that night. My condolences are with you.
Lynn & Mick, Inez & Ryan and Phil Gray xxx

Lynn Amp Mick Jones (Fellow doorman @ THE TOP DECK)

March 23, 2008

my hero

dad its not getting any easier without you, not a second goes past without you on my mind,to think i will never see you again is too hard to comprehend but you told us all during you illness to be strong,if only i could be as strong as you were then maybe i'll be ok but thats impossible because you never once showed us any of the pain you were going through,all you used to say when i said how are feelin today dad was 'not so bad son' then we would pick some horse,s out for a bet,you are and always will be my hero and i will love and miss you till the day i die.your in my heart and soul dad your broken hearted son citta,deborah,natalie,paige,bobbi jo and sonny xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx R.I.P dad &grandad xxxxxxxxx

Citta (Son)

March 16, 2008

greatest respect for a great man

as a dj ..jigsaw then Starlite...I feel so privileged to have known you Norman.....just for you 'spirit in the sky' by Norman Greenbaum

Malcolm Crow (Friend)

March 6, 2008

You were always there

Thankyou Norman for Always being there for myself and now my sons and my grandson. My family have grown up and enjoyed nights out around Redcar and always felt safe because you were always there, whatever the reason.
There is a big void now and I doubt it will ever be filled around Redcar. God Bless to you. Rest in Peace xxxxxxxx

Diane (Friend)

February 14, 2008

The Greatest Doors of all

Norman it has been a pleasure to be called a friend and it was an honour to work the doors with you for 20yrs you were a true gent,You have now gone to be the right hand man on the Greatest Doors of all,you will be greatly missed Goodnight & Godbless
Our Heartfelt Condolences go to Peggy & Family X

Graham Amp Eileen Wood (Friend)

February 13, 2008

what can i say 'TRUE GENT' god bless big norm

Terry Pink

February 12, 2008

one of the greats

herd about ure passing big man .u wer a true gent among men allways had a chat for all .who new u .my heart goes out to all the bushby family .sleep well big man dala and family

Dala Kelly Kids (Friend)

February 10, 2008

Sleep well Norman

Rest now Norman, a true gent who had patience, depth, strength and charisma. I enjoyed working the pressure filters with you and the nightclubs.

Number One Welder (Friend)

February 9, 2008
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